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以下给你提供一些材料。有议论文。有故事。有诗歌。如果是我。我就会把它们很好的结合成一个有趣而有思想的文章。最后一个链接是一篇关于婚姻的较长的文章。如果你偏重于议论文。那就好好看看

第一篇

Marriage , the grave or shrine of love?

Remember that a successful marriage depends on two things: finding the right

person and being the right person".Do we really know the actual definition of

a successful marriage? If not than lets look for it and see what conclusion we

can draw.We often say that someone somewhere is made for you and the day

you come across that person you feel that that he or she is the one you have been

waiting for.But later we see that due to lack of understanding and mental

compatibility they move apart. So how can we say that they were the perfect match

since they didnt gave any effort to understand each other.

So its important you know your partner. There are people who get physically attracted and fall for each other and eventually end up getting married.

But later on when they see their wavelength not matching they easily get separated

without a second thought. In todays generation we see these incidents more

compare to earlier generation. And this is more due to the changing social

scenario. With so many things to divert your attention you really dont know

what to do.

第二篇

Mutual understanding is crital to the sucsess of marriage. As a saying goes:"Marriage is the grave for love.'To a certain extent, it has some point in it, because love in most case is romantic and the lover only see the bright side of his or her counterpart,but the marriage invovles more vulgar things. During the daily life, you not only discover his or her bright side,you may also be reluctant to find sometimes he or she offensive to you. Therefore, mutual understanding is pretty important to maintain a good marriage. Without it, the couples will only complain each other when confronted with conflicts between them. As time goes by and the tention exists, more often than not, the marriage will eventually fall collapsed. So the most and foremost thing that a couple should keep in mind is that the precious love that bind them together. If not for that, how could they get to know and fall in with each other?

One must learn to treasure what one has had.

第三篇。小故事

I will be married in October this year.”when I announced this news to my sisters,they said:"oh,really?Do you afraid marriage is the tomb of love?"Oh my god,of course,I feel so bad to hear that.They don't give me blessings but intimidation? Are they my sisters? I confused for a period of time about this.and have strong confidence of my marriage.Time past,after two years marriage life,i feel that many unhappy things arround us , may be is not so big things,but is enough to make me think about the questions"Do you afraid marriage is the tomb of love?"Now,I can give everyone the answer.Yes,marriage is really the tomb of love,but it just like the story of"Besieged City".People in the city want to go outside.People outside want to go into the city.It is really very helplessness.these days, I feel very unhappy,but no one can help me ,I just don't want to back home,but...I want to see my baby....what can i do ,oh god,really trouble.

第四篇。诗歌。英汉对照

Then Almitra spoke again and said, And what of Marriage, master?

And he answered saying:

You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.

You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.

Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.

But let there be spaces in your togetherness.

And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.

Love one another, but make not a bond of love.

Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.

Fil each other's cup but drink not from one cup.

Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.

Sing and dance together and be joyous,but let each one of you be alone.

Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.

Give your hearts ,but not into each other's keeping.

For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.

And stand together yet not too near together:

For the pillars of the temple stand apart,

And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.

婚姻（纪伯伦《先知》）

艾尔米特再度开口，说道：请您和我们谈谈有关婚姻的事，好吗？

于是，他答道，

你们一同出生，也将长相厮守。

当死神之翼挥散了你们的生命时，你们仍将同在。

即使在上帝静默的记忆里，你们也将永远地相守。

但是请在你们彼此相依的世界中保留些许空间，

好让天堂之风在你们之间舞蹈。

彼此相爱，但不要让爱成为捆缚；

爱是辽阔起伏的海洋，使你们的灵魂隔岸相望。

应该注满彼此的杯，而不是只从一杯中啜饮。

要将自己的面包给对方，而不是享用同一份。

两人一同歌唱、舞蹈，同享欢愉，但仍各自保有自我，

就像琴上的弦虽为同一旋律而振动，彼此间仍是各自独立。

应献出你们的心，但绝非要你们紧握住对方的心不放，

因为只有生命的手才能握紧你们的心。

应一同站立，但不要过近；

因为廊柱分立才能撑起庙宇。

橡树和柏树断然无法在彼此的荫下成长。

最后一篇。长文。

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